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Court expert interviews. Don't play into emotional triggers

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
11/07/2025 12:42 PM
Expert behaviours   I’ve been told stories that have left me genuinely shocked at the conduct of some court-appointed experts, despite their responsibility to uphold a professional code...

Lawyers Behaviour, a story of abuse, threats and intimidation.

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
11/07/2025 12:21 PM
The Lawyer Let’s start with the lawyers, because that’s probably the first thing you’ll think of after an unamicable separation. And no, not all lawyers are bad people. Some genuinely have good...

Settling for Stability While Ignoring Red Flags

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 19:00 PM
Settling for Stability While Ignoring Red Flags I see this all the time—and I’ve felt it in myself. That drive for stability after separation, to rebuild, to feel safe again. It’s understandable....

Dating, The Holding Back of Telling Our Truth – Fear of Rejection

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 18:00 PM
The Holding Back of Telling Our Truth – Fear of Rejection I think we all have this feeling — the hesitation, the holding back — especially when we feel that our past experiences might define how...

When Stress Walks into Work – The Corporate Cost of Deregulated Nervous Systems

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 16:00 PM
When Stress Walks into Work – The Corporate Cost of Deregulated Nervous Systems Separation and divorce aren't just emotional breakups — they’re identity collapses. And in Western societies, where our...

Child and parent relationships restricted and controlled, The Gatekeeping parent.

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 11:50 AM
The Ferryman   Gatekeeping is the limiting and control of a parent and child relationship. The autonomy for a child to bond with another parent is often monitored and controlled as be...

Understanding Parental Alienation

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 11:00 AM
The Terminator Alienator   As we explore what parental alienation truly is, I urge you to reflect on your own behaviours in relation to what is written. If you genuinely wish to...

Spying and Creative Story telling.

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 11:00 AM
What Do They Have on Me?   With such a strong desire to win at any cost, the malicious parent will search for anything—social media posts, interactions, or photos—that can be...

Gaslighting in Relationships

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 11:00 AM
19th century applause   Before electric lighting, there was gaslighting. The term "gaslighting" comes from the play Gas Light, in which a husband dims the gas lights in their home whe...

Learning to say no

Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 11:00 AM
Learning to say no   As Dr. Gabor Maté describes in his book When the body says no (2003), our mind and body are not separate, as many medical theories may suggest. The age-old...