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Who I Am
I created Conflict Separation Coaching to support parents like you — parents who are stuck in the storm of high-conflict separation, facing manipulation, false allegations, and attempts to sever the bond with their child. I’ve lived it. I’ve studied it. And I’ve built a framework that helps you hold your ground and find clarity when everything around you feels chaotic.
What I Do
I offer practical tools, emotional support, and strategic guidance to help you stay calm, focused, and in control — even in the face of conflict, court stress, or emotional overwhelm.
What makes my work different is my ability to see the contrasting patterns of behaviour and predict potential tactics from a former partner before they happen. This allows me to coach you through setting clear, protective boundaries, guarding against future false claims, and reducing emotional chaos before it spirals.
With Neuro-Linguistic Programming I help you heal and undo the survival patterns created during conflict separation and the trauma experienced in Family Court. To come back to yourself and to grow beyond what you thought was possible.
Because I’ve walked this path myself, I understand the emotional weight you're carrying. I don’t run when things get uncomfortable like so many professionals who only see one side of the conflict. This isn’t about defending yourself endlessly. This is about letting go, staying grounded, and moving forward in a way changes you and so changes your reality.
Client Outcomes
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A stronger sense of calm and control, even in uncertain situations
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Reduced reactivity and better emotional regulation under pressure
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Clear understanding of behavioural patterns and how to manage them
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Increased credibility and steadiness in legal or court-related environments
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Support that doesn’t fall away when things get heavy or messy
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A renewed sense of self-trust and the ability to lead from clarity — not fear
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| If you're navigating a high-conflict separation, facing manipulative behaviour, false allegations, or attempts to sever your relationship with your child—you are not alone, and you're in the right place. At Conflict Separation Coaching, we help parents stay calm, clear, and emotionally grounded during the most stressful legal and personal battles of their lives. Whether you're trying to prove your character, protect your child, or simply hold onto your sanity—we offer practical tools, emotional support, and strategic guidance to help you show up strong, steady, and credible. This isn’t just coaching. It’s your lifeline during chaos. Download your freeImmediate steps to put in place after separationBook a free call today to discuss where you are now—and where you want to get to | We are building this business as a social enterprise — because we believe that healing the family system starts with supporting both parents and children.A portion of every coaching session fee is used to purchase LEGO sets for children impacted by family breakdown. Through creative play, we hope to offer these children moments of joy, imagination, and resilience during a difficult time — helping them understand: We partner with trusted family organisations, community groups, and legal services to ensure that these gifts are provided safely, ethically, and where they are most needed. At the heart of everything we do is one simple goal: To help families through one of life’s hardest transitions — so that both parents and children can move forward and build a brighter future. |
About Me
About the Founder – Andrew JaenschAndrew Jaensch is the founder of Conflict Separation Coaching, a transformative service created for individuals navigating the emotional and or legal storms of high-conflict separation. Drawing from lived experiences through the family court system, Andrew understands—deeply and personally—how easily unresolved pain, fear, and reactive behaviours can damage not only legal outcomes, but the sacred bond between parent and child. A former construction business owner turned trauma-informed coach, Andrew brings a grounded, no-fluff approach to helping clients remain emotionally regulated, strategically prepared, and child-focused throughout their separation journey. His work blends neuroscience, emotional intelligence, attachment theory, and practical lived insight to help individuals see beyond the fight—and return to what truly matters: being the safe, stable presence they and their children need.
| Andrew also works with corporate companies, business owners, managers, and HR teams, educating them on strategies to retain employees who are navigating personal trauma. He provides practical frameworks that help maintain employee productivity by creating safety, predictability, and stability in the workplace. His approach equips leaders with tools to regulate employee stress responses, ensuring individuals can perform at their professional standard even amidst personal chaos. By building systems that calm and support the nervous system, businesses can not only retain talent but also protect performance outcomes. Through one-on-one coaching, strategic guidance, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and downloadable resources, Andrew’s mission is to interrupt destructive cycles before they become generational patterns. He helps parents shift from reactivity to regulation, from blame to responsibility, and from chaos to clarity. Because healing the parent is often the first—and most powerful—step in protecting the emotional wellbeing of the child.
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Conflict Separation Coaching isn’t about winning in court or over your former partner. It’s about winning back your integrity, your calm, and your connection with self and your children. It’s about equipping individuals to navigate conflict without becoming it—and to lead themselves and their family forward with strength, wisdom, stability and grace.