Malicious Tactics
Breaking the Cycle of Financial Control: Healing the Fear Behind the Behaviour
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
16/09/2025 12:15 PM If you were financially controlling in the relationship, it’s time to ask yourself: Why? What fear was driving this behaviour? Was it insecurity, a need for control, a fear of abandonment, or a...
Quiet Evidence, Powerful Impact: Using Everyday Records to Stay Grounded Through False Allegations
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
15/09/2025 11:00 AM Conflict Separation Coaching Podcast Audio One highly overlooked piece of evidence in these situations is your bank statement. Most people don’t realise that transactions at stores, cafes,...
Lawyers Behaviour, a story of abuse, threats and intimidation.
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
11/07/2025 12:21 PM The Lawyer Let’s start with the lawyers, because that’s probably the first thing you’ll think of after an unamicable separation. And no, not all lawyers are bad people. Some genuinely have good...
Child and parent relationships restricted and controlled, The Gatekeeping parent.
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 11:50 AM The Ferryman Gatekeeping is the limiting and control of a parent and child relationship. The autonomy for a child to bond with another parent is often monitored and controlled as be...