Curiosity Turns Prediction Into Awareness In How Emotions Are Made, Lisa Feldman Barrett challenges one of the biggest assumptions about how emotions work. She explains that emotions are not...
When High-Conflict Separation Overwhelms a Mother’s Capacity to Care for a Young Child
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
09/10/2025 15:08 PM
I’m saying this directly to the men who are hurting: if you’re trying to control the situation, no matter how false the claims or how manipulative your former partner may be, please sit with this...
Children First: Why Emotional Coaching Matters in High-Conflict Separation
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
01/10/2025 10:05 AM
During the chaos of high-conflict separation, parents can become so caught up in their own emotions that they forget the role of co-regulation for a young child’s mind. A child who once lived in...
Rebuilding Your Relationship with Money After High-Conflict Separation
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
26/09/2025 16:00 PM
Conflict Separation Coaching Podcast Audio For many individuals who’ve been through high-conflict separation and the family court process, money stops feeling like a tool and starts feeling...
Poor Behaviour That Hurts Children and Your Position in Family Court
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
24/09/2025 19:00 PM
Conflict Separation Coaching Podcast Audio Let’s look at some poor behaviour that does not serve children, or a parent’s position, during high-conflict separation and the family court...
The Programmes We Run After High-Conflict Separation
Posted By Andrew jaensch,
24/09/2025 11:07 AM
What we perceive that we need will dictate the actions we take. Those actions are filtered through programmes wired by our past experiences. Like most people, we stick to a set programme that once...
Anger After High-Conflict Separation: Protection or Suppression?
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
24/09/2025 09:00 AM
Conflict Separation Coaching Podcast Audio There is a misconception about those who appear solely angry after high-conflict separation and the exhausting family court process. What we see on...
The Illusion of Narcissistic Value
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
21/09/2025 10:00 AM
Conflict Separation Coaching Podcast Audio The abuse in a narcissistic relationship is often long-standing, even after the relationship ends. But one thing stands out the most — the loss of...
Breaking the Cycle of Financial Control: Healing the Fear Behind the Behaviour
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
16/09/2025 12:15 PM
If you were financially controlling in the relationship, it’s time to ask yourself: Why? What fear was driving this behaviour? Was it insecurity, a need for control, a fear of abandonment, or a...
Quiet Evidence, Powerful Impact: Using Everyday Records to Stay Grounded Through False Allegations
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
15/09/2025 11:00 AM
Conflict Separation Coaching Podcast Audio One highly overlooked piece of evidence in these situations is your bank statement. Most people don’t realise that transactions at stores, cafes,...