A Time to Grow, A Time to Follow After separation, life feels like a puzzle with no picture on the box. You have all the pieces, scattered, sharp-edged, and unfamiliar—and no idea where to begin....
Letting Go Is More Important Than Gaining
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
12/07/2025 16:29 PM
Letting Go Is More Important Than Gaining With the world we live in today—marketing, ads, content everywhere—it’s easy to get stuck in the mindset that we are lacking. That we need to go find...
Children and Extended relationships.
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
12/07/2025 12:25 PM
Extended relationships. If your child has been withheld from you and you are going through a custody battle, then more than likely you and your entire family are being prohibited from ...
Blaming after divorce and how it effects our children.
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
12/07/2025 12:00 PM
Pass the buck The malicious parent will avoid responsibility for any fault of their own within the relationship. I have heard many parents blame the other for their current...
The Search for Validation: Why We Struggle to Keep Moving After Separation
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
12/07/2025 10:29 AM
The Search for Validation: Why We Struggle to Keep Moving After Separation At some point—after the heartbreak, the longing, the endless tears—we decide it’s time to get our life back on track. We...
Family Court, creating Trauma for children.
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
11/07/2025 13:00 PM
With so many parents, individuals, court employees, specialised and experts expressing dissatisfaction with the Family Court system it becomes increasingly clear that the issues within the system do...
Court expert interviews. Don't play into emotional triggers
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
11/07/2025 12:42 PM
Expert behaviours I’ve been told stories that have left me genuinely shocked at the conduct of some court-appointed experts, despite their responsibility to uphold a professional code...
Lawyers Behaviour, a story of abuse, threats and intimidation.
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
11/07/2025 12:21 PM
The Lawyer Let’s start with the lawyers, because that’s probably the first thing you’ll think of after an unamicable separation. And no, not all lawyers are bad people. Some genuinely have good...
Settling for Stability While Ignoring Red Flags
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 19:00 PM
Settling for Stability While Ignoring Red Flags I see this all the time—and I’ve felt it in myself. That drive for stability after separation, to rebuild, to feel safe again. It’s understandable....
Dating, The Holding Back of Telling Our Truth – Fear of Rejection
Posted By Andrew Jaensch,
10/07/2025 18:00 PM
The Holding Back of Telling Our Truth – Fear of Rejection I think we all have this feeling — the hesitation, the holding back — especially when we feel that our past experiences might define how...