
Articles and Blogs
Our articles and blogs dive deep into the emotional reality of conflict separation, exploring the pain, fear, and growth that come with co-parenting, rebuilding after loss, and learning to love again. Through honest reflection and grounded insight, we unpack the hidden patterns and emotional triggers that shape how you think, feel, and respond during and after separation.
These writings explore what it means to raise children between two homes, to face the uncertainty of new relationships, and to navigate the complex layers of identity that form when love, family, and trust have been tested. These writings aim to help you recognise your emotional triggers, understand your behavioural responses, and uncover the internal representations you’ve built from your past experiences, the mental and emotional filters that shape how you see the world, others, and yourself.
By bringing awareness to these patterns, you begin to shift from reactivity to regulation, from fear to understanding. Our goal is to help you find calm through the chaos, rebuild emotional safety, and create relationships, with your children, your partner, and yourself, that are rooted in awareness, authenticity, and growth.
Rebuilding life after separation
This category explores life after the storm, rebuilding a sense of self, stability, and purpose after conflict separation. When identity and confidence feel lost, these blogs guide you through rediscovery and rebuilding with strength and self-respect. Learn to regulate your nervous system, rebuild self-worth, and create a foundation for growth, not survival. It’s not about moving on fast, but rebuilding intentionally so your new life feels grounded, secure, and true to who you’re becoming.


Fear of Success After Separation


The Search for Validation: Why We Struggle to Keep Moving After Separation


Letting Go Is More Important Than Gaining


The Hidden Chaos: Life After Traumatic Separation in the Workplace


Why Going Back to Your Former Partner Feels Safe


Self-Worth: The Invisible Architect of Our Reality


Letting go of the Ego.


What Demotivates Us May Be More Than Laziness


Breaking Free from the Programmes That Keep Us Stuck After Separation


Breaking Free from Fear: How Attachment Patterns Shape Life After Separation


The Mechanic of the Human Mind


Coming Home to Yourself After Separation


Why It’s Hard to Celebrate Others When We’re Struggling


It Was Never You


Interpretation of communication


When Stress Silences Love: How High-Conflict Separation Shapes Parent–Child Bonds


The Illusion of Narcissistic Value

