6 Month Support programme

This plan is not about engaging a coach who will hold your hand or pat you on the back when things get hard. It’s about working with a coach who will hold you accountable and point out the things you may never be told by your solicitor while going through the family court system.

So many parents go through their first divorce and high-conflict separation completely unaware of what is happening. Uneducated. Unprepared. Left to the wolves while navigating an environment that can build them or break them. Most parents come out the other end angry, bitter, and resentful about things they didn’t see, didn’t know, or were simply never told.

 

The constant character attacks by the opposing solicitor can leave an individual hyper-vigilant and always on high alert, even after procedures are finished and family court orders are signed. People are still reacting in fear, still using the same old strategies with their former partner, still trapped in the patterns that do more harm than good.

 

During a high-conflict separation, people may try to create some form of control over their reality, their relationships, and their time with their children. But this often has a detrimental effect on positive outcomes, not just in the case, but also when it comes to financial resources. Emotional outbursts, reactive behaviour, and poorly timed communication end up costing tens of thousands in legal fees just to clean up the mess.

 

It’s not fair. It’s not nice. But what you do and don’t do right now matters far more than most parents realise, especially for the future relationship with your children.

Your solicitor is not your enemy either. But emotional emails, reactions, and behaviours that reflect poorly on you make their task harder. It takes more time and more money to fix those mistakes. You want your financial investment going toward outcomes, not being used to patch up damage caused by fear-driven actions.

 

This plan and coaching isn’t just about getting you through the chaos. It’s about rebuilding and preventing the emotional storm from taking years to recover from mentally, emotionally, and financially.

 

This isn’t just an investment to help you survive, it’s a transformation that lasts a lifetime. A chance to limit the damage now and build a personal character that is prepared for the future. A future with a new life, a new healthy relationship, love, career growth, and stronger relationships with your children, protecting them from the emotional and psychological damage that high-conflict separation can inflict.